The Venice Beach Sonnets

The man with no beard –

on a different coast-

inventing one self.

Go.

                -- DSK prompt 3/13/16 

 

The man with no beard on a different coast

   Looks different and looks differently at life.

His future pregnant and his past a ghost,

   He strolls the beach like a content ex-wife.

He feels divorced from everything but all

   The possibilities that he holds dear—

The hazards that he coddles—till they stall

   From much too little faith and too much fear.

At the best, we are all what we don’t do—

   Defined not by our riches, but our debt—

With all our mysteries, both fake and true,

   Solved by the uncommitted we regret.

      Regret which, like a snug beard, must be shorn

      For the true face it safeguards to be born.

 

He wonders if he has to visualize

   The face he wants and wants the world to see,

Or if it’s something he can improvise

   If he relaxes and says “Let it be?”

Sometimes the way to guide is to let go;

   But that part in him which adores control

Hears Life say “Yes!” and can’t stop whining “No!”

   Till insolent defiance fills his soul.

To him, saying no means he’s independent,

   And doesn’t have to be part of the mess

Of affirmation, or a co-defendant

   Who’s prosecuted for the crime of Yes—

      And, while he takes a bow for being clever,

      Commits the greater crime of saying “Never.”

The lack of beard sets free the face, just like

   Facing what’s feared sets free the slave of habit,

Who loves his chains too much to ever strike

   Them from the ankles of his inner rabbit.

Freedom and change terrify to the bone

  When Life’s not where you go but where you stay,

For all free souls start out scared of their own

   Shadow—and all the chained ones end that way—

Made timid by the certainty of doom

   And alternately paralyzed and frantic—

Forgetting that the darkest shadows loom

   From something small that’s lit to look gigantic

      Enough to make the strong feel impotent—

      And can’t be threatening without consent.

 

The man with no beard thinks: “I have the power,

   And yet I hand it to what makes me weak.

When faced with opportunity, I cower;

   When graced with well-deserved success, I freak.

And when I talk about myself, the voice

   I use is one that says I’m satisfied

With sitting this one out—I have no choice—

   My past defeats make me disqualified.”

He ponders this, and realizes that

   Life is a game that’s played in counter-moves;

And when someone retreats or just stands pat,

   Nothing important changes or improves.

      When sitting on your hands becomes the law,

      The best that you can hope for is a draw.

It’s what you put your hand to that defines

   The game you play, and how much of your heart’s

In it that shows which way your soul inclines

   And how far it will lean when your turn starts.

The man without a beard looks at his hands.

   They’ve touched more pens than people now for years.

So prompt to answer to his mind’s demands;

   So slow to reach beyond his heart’s frontiers.

What he puts them to is so safe for him

   And second-hand, he always feels like he’s

Not living Life but just Life’s synonym,

   And not doing to do—doing to please

      Everyone but himself, so he can feel

      Valued, appreciated, loved—and real.

 
 

That’s how he’s wired now—to cannibalize

   The endless negativity that feeds

His fears, and channel it so it supplies

   All the positive energy he needs.

The wiring started when he was a kid.

   Now it’s a giant knot of patches where

One bad connection can short out the grid

   And all the oldest cables need repair.

It’s such a tangled mess of ancient junk

   But he’s grown used to how it never fails

To make fuel from his nasty inner gunk
   And turn his biggest anchors into sails.

      He’s really quite proud of it, in a way—

      It’s made him into who he is today.

 

But what about tomorrow?—which is just

   A single step away. What step gets taken?

Most of the time we just stand still and trust

   That while we sleep, our dreams will all awaken—

That they’ll bring us to life, instead of us

   Laboring to give birth to them, and guiding

Them as they grow from something dubious

   To something that’s substantial and abiding.

So what does one make love to, to bring dreams

   To life, except the passion of today,

And hope it lasts until that love redeems

   Itself in what regret cannot betray:

      A life built not on maybe or somehow,

      But whens that are all one step from a now.

 

The man without a beard pictures the host

   Of women that his heart leans to, and each

One of them glides before him like a ghost,

   Into his arms and always out of reach,

Because not one of them is flesh and blood.

   They’re all ideas and visions, based on who

He thinks they are, or wants from them—no mud

   Beneath their feet; just clouds and sky deep-blue.

He wishes he loved someone who was real,

   And knows it’s him—not them—who is at fault.

Loving ghosts means he can pretend to feel

   And then perform a mental somersault

      To feel rejected by the ghostly pack

      And blame them all for not loving him back. 

 

“Something else to untangle,” he says to

   Himself as he walks barefoot on the beach,

Shoes in his hands, past a young woman who

   Lies naked on her stomach, like a peach

With tan lines. Juicy. Ripe. But still just fruit.

   The skin is pleasing and the flesh is sweet,

But he’s in search of something more than cute

   That would make him feel more than incomplete.

Not something perfect—life will always flaw it—

   Or something that keeps trying to resist him.

But would he even know it if he saw it

   And would he even feel it if it kissed him?

      No. For he knows that he’s built up a wall

      Between him and all feelings large and small.

 

And like all walls, what it protects becomes

  Too weak to ever meet the world head-on.

Security safeguards, but also numbs

   Till what was once outgoing is withdrawn.

That wall means safety; but what safety means

   Is what’s kept in as well as what’s kept out—

And then infecting what it quarantines

   With laziness, timidity and doubt.

The man without a beard knows this too well.

   His life is all retreats and few advances

And in the end he has to fight like hell

   To get his heart to take the smallest chances.
      It’s like a blessing born from a great sin:

      You have to break out to let love break in. 

The man without a beard would hide his light

   Behind a bushel like he hid his face

Behind white hair. And whether it was fright

   Or modesty, it put him in his place.

It kept him free of any obligations.

   It lost him the attention that a star gets.

It made him low, just like his expectations,

   And small—for tiny things make harder targets.

Which got him just where he wanted to be:
   Nowhere—which is the safest spot on earth.

The only place where you’re completely free

   To gloat over your total lack of worth.

      Nowhere: that soothing shelter that can hide you

      All while it daily lives and grows inside you.

 

Somewhere there is a risk that feels like home;

   Somewhere the courage in his heart to dare it—

A garden unprotected by a dome

   With someone grounded who will thirst to share it.

Next to that, his life now is bare and dry—

   A place not to reside, but travel through,

Where questions all get echoes in reply

   And every answer is a Waterloo.

Is that defeatism or recognition

   That truth is like a battle always lost?

What if he simply gives himself permission

   To heaven reap, and to hell with the cost?

      What can stop him from where he wants to go

      Except the voice inside him that says “No?”

 

He never says no to the troublesome

   And faithfully avoids the status quo.

So what does he say yes to? Which is from

   A play he wrote more than ten years ago.

Besides his writing (which is his best armor),

   What fills his plate with what he needs to live—

Handing his heart to some elusive charmer?

   Telling himself it’s cool to always give

And never get? Why do those questions make

   Him feel as if he’s emptier than space—

Like all his wagers have nothing at stake

   And his whole world is one big hiding place?
      Because, he thinks, behinds those questions lies

      A face he’s always trying to disguise.

 

The face the world sees is our public best:

   We wear it like a tyrant wears a crown.

And underneath its smile are all the rest:

   Face after face—faces, all the way down.

Which one is real and which one is a fake?

   They all are. And they’re fashioned to protect

One tender face which rarely comes awake

   Where we’ve invested all our self-respect.

The man with no beard on a different coast

   Looks different, and looks differently at life.

That hidden face now haunts him like a ghost;
   And though it may end up like an ex-wife,

      He’ll hunt it down, do what he can to free it,

      Then put his hand to what it sees, and be it.


Copyright 2016 Matthew J Wells